When the itch’s gone, what’s left to scratch?

gullivers-travels

Imagine a continuum, a sliding scale, with fear on the left end and unconditional love on the far right. Ideally we are free to along that scale and of course the ideal is to be moving towards love. Now imagine being tied down like Gulliver of Gulliver’s travels with hundreds of tiny but strong ropes. Each rope is anchored to the ground … it is not so easy to move anymore is it? EFT is one approach to snip all those ropes, very effectively releasing all those extra baggage that comes from past traumas, limiting beliefs, and past experiences. But what happens when we are done snipping those ropes? What comes next? I’ve been astounded watching my clients [...] Read more »

With love and respect

and thanks for our ancestors and families There is an immense family loyalty and love that shows up in our behavior — the system desires to be whole and each of us will do our part to illuminate that wholeness. When we start to look at “undesirable” behavior and see the underlying love that is there, everything changes. When we can look at the family secrets with love, the family system transforms. When we can include those who have been excluded, the energy of love begins to flow freely. When we can accept our family’s fate with love and honor and respect and see the nobility of the past but not despair in the pain, we open ourselves [...] Read more »

Road Block or Sign Post?

Our problems show us what we value.  What we are struggling with shows us what is important to us.  We all know that the opposite of love isn’t hate, it’s apathy. One of the biggest limitations in my life has been self-blame; one of the greatest reliefs has been feeling vindicated that what I believe, experience, and even suffer with are all the right path for me. So often I see folks using EFT to “fix themselves” and this fixing assumes that what they are experiencing is wrong or harmful or limiting.  What if what’s wrong with us is actually the door to our greatest delight and expansion? What if on the other side of our pain is [...] Read more »

Our deepest desires, our ferocious fears

Welcome friends.  I’m so pleased to see folks request my Whispers from the Universe and Guide to Surrogate Tapping.  The year I wrote Whispers, I was very called to support, embrace, and encourage others to accept and see themselves as whole.  It was a gentle energy I was sharing, loving and nurturing ourselves so we could grow into our power.  It was a process I had been working with myself – reparenting myself so that I could step fully into my adult self. Now the energy I am accessing is much more dynamic, dramatic, compelling.  I see my clients making radical quantum shifts in their self-perception, awakening to a deep drive and purpose that hadn’t had the space [...] Read more »