Much of what I’ve written about in my newsletters is how to use EFT, Family Energetics, and now Human Design to know ourselves. EFT allows us to clear past traumas and old emotional blocks so that we can fully access and embrace our authentic selves, releasing old patterns, blocks, and thoughts that limit us being ourselves. Family Energetics allows us to clear and see family systemic blockages and patterns so that the love of our ancestors can flow to us so that we can live our lives as ourselves. And Human Design gives us the roadmap of our internal energetic design so that we can make decisions authentically rather than unconsciously reacting to the external world. But where [...] Read more »
When the itch’s gone, what’s left to scratch?

Imagine a continuum, a sliding scale, with fear on the left end and unconditional love on the far right. Ideally we are free to along that scale and of course the ideal is to be moving towards love. Now imagine being tied down like Gulliver of Gulliver’s travels with hundreds of tiny but strong ropes. Each rope is anchored to the ground … it is not so easy to move anymore is it? EFT is one approach to snip all those ropes, very effectively releasing all those extra baggage that comes from past traumas, limiting beliefs, and past experiences. But what happens when we are done snipping those ropes? What comes next? I’ve been astounded watching my clients [...] Read more »
Is it Okay to Want More?
I’ve long been a student of different systems: personality systems, personal growth systems, nutrition and fitness systems, health systems – you get the idea. I feel like I’m always looking for something. I wonder if it’s the search I enjoy or if I really am looking for something. I sometimes fault myself for being naive and thinking that things should feel better. Why can’t I just suck it up and enjoy things the way they are? But then I recognize that in some areas where I was seeking, I finally did find the answer that worked for me. And that’s the key — trusting that you can find the key that works for you, as well as trusting [...] Read more »
Now Is the Time…
This year is going to be big; there is a universal calling for each of us to step fully in to our own power and unique gifts. All around me, folks are radically reevaluating how they want to be in this world. Can you feel the sense of possibility and power that is there for you? Join me in this tapping script around being BOLD! Set-Up Phrase Even though I used to think of myself as small, I am open to the excitement of totally being myself in a very big way. Even though I don’t know what it would look like to be boldly myself, I am open to the idea that my unique presence matters. Even [...] Read more »
Our deepest desires, our ferocious fears
Welcome friends. I’m so pleased to see folks request my Whispers from the Universe and Guide to Surrogate Tapping. The year I wrote Whispers, I was very called to support, embrace, and encourage others to accept and see themselves as whole. It was a gentle energy I was sharing, loving and nurturing ourselves so we could grow into our power. It was a process I had been working with myself – reparenting myself so that I could step fully into my adult self. Now the energy I am accessing is much more dynamic, dramatic, compelling. I see my clients making radical quantum shifts in their self-perception, awakening to a deep drive and purpose that hadn’t had the space [...] Read more »
Replacing Our To Do list with a To Be list
I am a huge fan of “to do” lists. My lists keep me organized, on task, and able to make sense of a seemingly endless parade of tasks and chores to be completed. So imagine my surprise when I came across the following idea in an article by Alan Cohen. Alan writes in an article called, “What to Ask For”: “How long is your “to do” list? The more things you think of that you have to do, the more things you find to do. Then you end up feeling tired and unfulfilled. Try replacing your “to do” list with a “to be”list.” Once I read Alan’s idea, my whole concept of list-making shifted. I have been studying [...] Read more »
I Wish I Were Wiser
I subscribe to a daily email from an amazing parenting coach, Scott Noelle (http://www.enjoyparenting.com/get-your-daily-groove). His Daily Groove writing offers profound insights into how to be with our children in a collaborative way. He has great insights into the Law of Attraction and other loving and empowering truths. I wish I had his wisdom. He is definitely a leading edge parent who understands cooperation and mutual respect in a way I just don’t. I know when I’m doing something that’s old-fashioned and limited – I just don’t always know how to be different. Scott has a way of seeing choices where I see only limitations, of seeing growth and potential where I only see judgment and criticism, of seeing [...] Read more »