Whether we are the adults getting divorced, the young children of the divorced parents, or even the adult children of divorced parents, divorce matters.  

For the adults getting divorced, there are the usual feelings of guilt, relief, grief, betrayal all mixed up in one.  For the children, there is often a hidden feeling of not being wanted.  Even if the divorce was for the best, and the parents are attentive and supportive, there is often a left-over feeling of the marriage being a mistake.  And if the marriage was a mistake, then the children are a mistake – or at least, that’s how they feel. 

It takes conscious effort to reinforce that the children are a product of love, even if the parents can’t stand each other.  The key to this is seeing the love that created the children, even if the relationship is over.   Sometimes this shift can happen with a few rounds of tapping.  Sometimes there are more hidden dynamics interfering with the flow of love.  This tapping script below will help get you started.

This tapping is for the parents. 

Set-Up Phrase

Hello friends,

Below is a powerful tapping script that comes from my work with the family matrix and EFT.  Please do leave questions and comments -- it's very useful to me and others ...

I invite you to expand your concept of family and home for just a bit and see how our hearts still carry our history of many generations .... 

When we choose to leave

The U.S. is known for being somewhat mobile – folks move around the countryfor work, for jobs, to go to school, to follow their dreams, or to find a better life.  The unspoken price of moving around is leaving our families.   In fact, if you look at the energy of the U.S. as a whole,we all left someplace to come here. Whether our parents, ourgrandparents, or generations before, we chose, or were forced to leave, our homeland.

This hidden loss of our homeland can show up in our lives today as an entanglement – basically that means that part of ourenergy is still tied to our ancestor’s homeland and until we can see and name and feel and accept that loss and connection, we won’t fullyfind our places here.